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Definition of Success in Life with Simone E. Morris

Definition of Success in Life with Simone E. Morris

In this 2020 re-release, Definition of Success in Life, special guest Simone E. Morris, CEO of Simone Morris Enterprises, LLC, shares her journey from a corporate career in IT and diversity and inclusion to starting her own business. She discusses her podcast, "The Power of Owning Your Career," which empowers women to take control of their professional lives. Simone also highlights her work in helping organizations create authentic and inclusive cultures. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about career empowerment and inclusion.

 

 

In this 2020 Re-Release episode, CEO & Founder Simone E. Morris, initially believed that excelling at her job would lead to rewards and promotions, but she later realized that networking and building relationships were crucial factors in advancing her career and highlights the distinction between having a mentor and having a sponsor. While a mentor helps with skill development, a sponsor is someone who advocates for you and champions your career behind closed doors. She emphasizes the need for both a mentor and a sponsor to succeed in your career.

This episode covers:

[00:03:15] Women of color leveraging opportunities.

[00:10:34] Your voice matters.

[00:21:09] Give yourself grace.

 

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Making an Impact

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Women of color leveraging opportunities.

Simone E. Morris: “We can see from books like Minda's book, The Memo, that there is a true opportunity for women of color to lean in and have the resources, the mentoring, the sponsorship. I think it's a true opportunity for women of color to leverage different vehicles to get their voices heard. So if you're not being heard in corporate America, inside the walls, if you will, then go external. You could be a panelist, you could be a speaker, you could be a moderator. There are opportunities to get your voice heard. “

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Your voice matters.

Simone E. Morris: “You have to do some work on yourself to know what to ask for when you are being asked to use your voice or tell me your opinion. Prepare yourself for opportunities, prepare yourself for when people say, well, how can I help you. Be clear on what it is you need to succeed, whether it is a sponsor, whether it is dollars.”

Give yourself grace.

Simone E. Morris: “2020 taught me the ability to give myself grace, give myself space to deal with what happens in life, and to rise up to handle what's next. So take the time to heal.  Take the time to strategize and plan and be in the driver's seat for your career. You define what makes you happy.”

 

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Noteworthy Quotes

  • 00:02:37 - "Empowering women to be in the driver's seat for their careers." -
  • 00:03:15 - "I think it's a true opportunity for women of color to leverage different vehicles to get their voices heard."
  • 00:09:51 - "So get uncomfortable, right? I mean, growth comes from that. That space of being uncomfortable from that space of discomfort, and I definitely like dance with discomfort."
  • 00:15:58 - "So you are having to learn some things on the job. Some people are lucky that they have influences around them where they've gotten the knowledge of a sponsor in the workplace."

 

 

About Simone E. Morris

Simone Morris is CEO of Simone Morris Enterprises LLC, a certified minority and women-owned business enterprise providing leadership solutions. She is an award-winning diversity and inclusion leader recognized by Diversity Best Practices, Diversity MBA, Diversity MBE Magazine, and her former employer. The Stevie® Awards for Women in Business recently dubbed her the 2020 Bronze Winner for Female Solo Entrepreneur of the Year.

Ms. Morris spent twenty-three years in Corporate America with retail, consumer products, financial, pharmaceutical, and information technology industries. Her work in the Diversity and Inclusion field began through leadership, an employee resource group, followed up with a role in Human Resources, and then as the Director of Diversity for the Southern Connecticut Society for Human Resources. Today, Ms. Morris is a consultant, trainer, coach and speaker committed to developing more inclusive leaders and creating authentic, inclusive cultures in organizations.

Email: smorris@simonemorrisenterprises.org

Website: https://www.simonemorrisenterprises.org/

Podcast:  The Power of Owning Your Career https://www.simonemorrisenterprises.org/podcastbooks

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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/simonemorris/

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Transcript

Deneen L. Garrett: 00:06 01:11 Welcome to An Intimate Conversation with Women of Color. This podcast provides women of color, LGBTQ+, and allies a platform to use their voices. Join us as we share our personal journeys. I am your host, Deneen L. Garrett. Hello, An Intimate Conversation with women of color listeners. Thank you once again for joining me for another week, another intimate conversation. I'm looking forward to today's guest who is one of my three favorite podcasters. I am so looking forward to the conversation, to you all learning more about Simone E. Morris and just coming along with her journey. So sit back and get ready for today's episode. Simone, hi, and welcome to an intimate conversation with women of color. How are you today?
Simone E. Morris: 01:11 01:15 I'm doing great. Thanks so much, Deneen, for having me.

Deneen L. Garrett: 01:15 01:57 You are so welcome. So I want to introduce you to our listeners. So today's guest is Simone E. Morris. She is the CEO of Simone Morris Enterprises, LLC. We met virtually Simone or was first introduced to her through one of my favorite podcasters, and that is Amanda Hartz. Simone was also on my second, one of my others. I have three favorites, Simone being one. Also on Stephen A. Hartz podcast. And so that's how I was first introduced to you, Simone, and your podcast, The Power of Owning Your Career. Tell us a little bit more about you.

Simone E. Morris: 01:58 02:36 Awesome. Well, I come from a corporate background. I spent about 23 years in corporate America. primarily with a information technology background and switched over to human resources, specifically diversity and inclusion, and then went out on my own back in 2015. So my business is really focused on two lanes. One lane is empowering women to be in the driver's seat for their careers. And then the other lane is teaching organizations how to truly have an authentic authentically inclusive culture. So very exciting times for me in 2020.

Deneen L. Garrett: 02:37 03:14 Yeah, absolutely. We definitely need that focus now more than ever, right? Or definitely in these times, for sure. And there's been a lot of movement in this space. And it's great to see. It's great to see companies stepping up and either, you know, expanding their D&I, adding a D&I. Some of them are adding the E, so the D, E, and I. So lots of exciting changes during this time. So thank you for your contributions. No, you mentioned, you know, 1 of your lanes is empowering women. So, why is it important for women of color to have a platform to use their voices?

Simone E. Morris: 03:15 05:12 Oh my gosh, well, look at 2020. Why? You know, oh my goodness, because what an opportunity in 2020 and beyond. And even before that, I mean, you know, traditionally, there've been a lot of women in the workplace. There's over, I believe it's over 51% or more women in the workplace globally. And a lot of them are women of color. And, you know, we can see from books like Minda's book, The Memo, that there is a true opportunity for women of color to lean in and have the resources, the mentoring, the sponsorship, et cetera. I think it's a true opportunity. for women of color to leverage different vehicles to get their voices heard. So if you're not being heard in corporate America, inside the walls, if you will, then go external. You could be a panelist, you could be a speaker, you could be a moderator. There are opportunities to get your voice heard. For me, I found my voice through a employee. if you will, I was leading a African heritage employees resource group for about four years. But I had been with the organization for a number of years before that, but I was really behind the scenes and I really wasn't comfortable using my voice. Once I started playing in that space, I started to really use my voice and I discovered the power of using my voice when I was sitting at the table with the CEO talking about what the culture is like and what my opinion was. And I was, I didn't know what to do with that because that had never happened to me before. And, and I liked it. So I started to look for opportunities for my voice really to be heard and for me to build up that confidence to use it more for change.

Deneen L. Garrett: 05:13 06:08 Yes, and you know what? Very similar situation for me. So I'm also in a diversity and inclusion space, and I had created a panel for LGBTQ plus women of color and allies, providing them a platform for their voices. So my podcast is actually, it started as that panel. back in 2017. And it's iterated multiple times, but exactly as you said, you know, I did it, you know, I moderated it. It was a platform for my voice. It was a platform for their voice. I did that same panel. Well, not the same exact, but it was a different theme each year, but I did it for three years. And then this year I decided, hey, I'm going to expand it to all women of color. And it's going to be a podcast. And now I'm able every week to give a different woman of color the opportunity to use her voice on a platform. So thank you for sharing that and the importance of it.

Simone E. Morris: 06:08 06:12 I love that. That's so awesome.

Deneen L. Garrett: 06:12 06:54 So other than you have two podcasts, I know that one of your podcasts is a kind of like a school-focused podcast. You mentioned the career, owning your career. And again, I love the podcast. My son goes to school, college 90 minutes away. I'm often driving to listening to a couple of your episodes as well as driving back, listening to a couple episodes. And also when I was doing a lot of walking, exercising, I will listen to your podcast. So, you know, those are two ways that you're using your voice. You mentioned some panels, you mentioned when you were in corporate, in the employee resource groups, but how else are you using your voice?

Simone E. Morris: 06:54 07:47 I use my voice in terms of the written word. So I write for entrepreneur.com and I write, I use my thought leadership across different platforms. So I've written for Glassdoor, Leadercast, the AMA, Playbook, Forbes, et cetera. If you are shy, introvert, and you've yet to build up those skills, you can use your voice in the written form. So I inform and educate through writing articles and sharing my message. I also am a speaker. I'm a professional speaker. So, you know, pre-COVID, I was around the country sharing my knowledge at companies or conferences, sharing my message. So speaking is an opportunity to use your voice. Writing is an opportunity to use your voice as well.

Deneen L. Garrett: 07:48 08:23 Yes, and I'm glad that you mentioned that about the written word, because when I talk to people, and when I say use your voice, use it however you can. And that could be speaking, that could be through writing, it could be, you know, through drawing, dancing, singing, however, it's an expression. And that's kind of how I equate using your voice, expressing yourself. So how are you expressing yourself? So thank you for that. So there are some women of color who do not recognize the power of their voices. What would you like to tell those who perceive themselves to be voiceless?

Simone E. Morris: 08:24 09:51 I would tell them to go to a Toastmaster meeting. I remember in my early corporate days, I'm an introvert and so I'm very shy and it took me a lot to speak up. I was the lurker and listening and processing. I went to a Toastmasters meeting and I ended up staying in Toastmasters for about 10 years. Toastmasters is an opportunity to build your voice if you feel voiceless because it, allows you to learn how to speak extemporaneously as well as in the prepared form. And I think the muscles that you build from that experience can take you very far in life. So now you can do virtual. I've told my client, some of my coaching clients, I'll send them to Toastmasters when we're working on building confidence, because I know the power of it from a leadership and from a communication standpoint. So I would say start there and, you know, get uncomfortable, force yourself to dance with discomfort. It doesn't always have to be comfortable. for you to grow. I have learned the most when I'm uncomfortable. So I would say find some, you know, get into some good trouble and be uncomfortable and you will find your voice and be kind to yourself on the journey to finding your voice.

Deneen L. Garrett: 09:51 10:34 Yeah, absolutely. And I like that. So get uncomfortable, right? I mean, growth comes from that. That space of being uncomfortable from that space of discomfort, and I, and I definitely like dance with discomfort. I want to kind of circle back to so you mentioned you were having a conversation with the CEO. And you liked it. You like using your voice. You like how that experience was. Tell us a little bit more about that. Because I think that a lot of us are finding ourselves in those spaces where we're with a CEO, with a leader. And right now, because it's 2020, and things that have happened, people are wanting to hear from us. So tell us a little bit more about that experience.

Simone E. Morris: 10:34 12:31 Yeah, I think you have to do some work on yourself to know what to ask for when you are being asked to use your voice or tell me your opinion. I think a lot of times I was in awe that I was invited into spaces that I could have used my voice even more. And I had to trust that my voice mattered. So I think prepare yourself for opportunities, prepare yourself for when people say, well, how can I help you know what you need to ask for, because you've given yourself time to think about it. And you have a running list of things that you need help with from senior leadership or your line manager, be clear on what it is you need to succeed, whether it is a sponsor, Whether it is dollars and and you know I had to convince myself that I I remember having a $5,000 budget and having like major dreams about what I wanted to do in the ERG space. And I turned $5,000 into $80,000 because I got the budget and I was like, okay, I don't really know what this is going to do for a year. I've got all these things I want to do. And so I, um, I learned how to write a proposal. I had a really good executive sponsor. He said, tell me what you want. I learned how to use my voice in the written form. So I was writing out a proposal with this is what I want to do. This is what it's going to cost. This is what I need to succeed. And then I had to be courageous to have the conversation with the executive sponsor to hand it over to him to trust him that he was going to do some magic with it. And guess what he did. You don't have to accept everything that you get, like that's it. At least try to push, try to dance with discomfort.

Deneen L. Garrett: 12:32 13:13 Yeah. And then the part about knowing what you want, often we're like, Oh, I want, you know, you want something, you want that person's ear, but then when you have it, you're not able to communicate, articulate what it is that you want. So definitely have to get in touch with ourselves to understand what we want. And that's just, that's, that is a level of discomfort. Whereas, you know, often taking time with ourselves, To get to know ourselves to know what we want. That is that's an interesting experience. And I think is 1 that a lot of people kind of shy away from, but you have to tap into and get to know yourself. And I mean, and that's what you talk a lot about in on your career, right?

Simone E. Morris: 13:13 14:45 Yeah, I talk about taking responsibility and I, I full know about this because once upon a time, I was of the mindset that folks owed me something and that I do my job and I would get my, I would get my rewards. And so apart from pay. There were some disappointments for me along the way because I was busy waiting to be rewarded and I noticed others start noticing your environment and know the unwritten rules of your environment. I started noticing that people were networking and I I really believe that, you know, go into work, do your job, keep your personal life separate, and when it's time to go, go. And that's what I was doing, and I was thinking, why am I not getting promoted? I just did not understand the importance of networking and building relationships and being strategic. And I learned so much when I left corporate America that sometimes I'll say to myself, Wow, if I knew this when I was in corporate, watch out. I just, I wasn't there. And, and I think that God had a different plan for me. And, you know, this is my third, uh, try at entrepreneurship and it seems to be working well this third time because I had to be convinced to use my voice in this way. So I just think we're each on a journey and, uh, things become clearer with each experience that we have.

Deneen L. Garrett: 14:46 15:58 Absolutely. And you know, what you were talking about reminded me of the one episode I had shared with you before, like, Oh my God, I love this, listening to that. And it blew my mind and it still does. So absolutely. You know, there was a time when you can just put your head down and grind and people would come in. Oh, you're doing such a great job. Here's a promotion. Those days are pretty much over, right? Those days are really over. Like if they don't hear from you, they don't even know you exist. So that's right. So yeah. And so the one guest that you were speaking to, what I remember about her, you had asked her, when did she know, you know, about her being confident and whatever. And she's like, I always was this way, right? There wasn't anything that really happened in my life for me to become this way. But what she also mentioned, which I grapple with is, she talked about how, and she was talking about the differences between men and women. And she said how, Men will go to the boss and find out, OK, there might be 10 different responsibilities within a particular role. Which two are you focused on? And that's the two that that person is going to do, and they're going to do it well. Whereas with us women, no, we're working on all 10. Yes.

Simone E. Morris: 15:58 17:24 Yes. Yes. Yes. Even the job description. I remember just ruling myself out based on my literal literal way of being. So if I see that I have only six of the qualifications, I wouldn't apply because I was like, Well, I don't have these four things. And we're from a gender stamp. Men are like, Yeah, I've got, you know, I've got this, let me go ahead and go for it. So you're going for a lot more things. So but who teaches you this stuff? As I reflect back, to my different educational stints in college, grad school, et cetera. Like, where do you get taught this stuff? So you are having to learn some things on the job. Some people are lucky that they have influences around them where they've gotten the knowledge of, you need a sponsor in the workplace. No one ever told me about sponsorship. I was like, I need a mentor. And it's a lot more than a mentor. You need someone who's going to put dollars, who's going to believe in you. unequivocally and really help you as a partner for success. I didn't learn a lot of that at home. I learned a lot in jobs that I've had or additional education, but I was struggling for a while just trying to figure out. Think about a Rubik's cube, if you will. It's figuring it out and you will figure it out.

Deneen L. Garrett: 17:26 18:56 Yes, for sure. And, you know, and you've already mentioned some of the places that add value or bring that value, being involved in an employee resource group, right? So whatever it's called at your company, if it's a business resource group, an employee group, et cetera, getting involved because often they do career development. Like they'll talk about the difference between having a mentor and a sponsor. You definitely need both. You know, the mentor is more so just to kind of help you along with skills, skilling up. Whereas that sponsor is like advocating for you, they're champion for you, they're talking about you, you know, behind your back in a good way, right? They're in those closed doors, speaking on your behalf. And so you learn that through relationships, building relationships. So however you're building those relationships, you're connecting with other people. And then you look at people who are doing things that you aspire to and, you know, watch them and, or, you know, try to get a few minutes with them to learn from them. So yes to everything. You know, nowadays we have to teach ourselves. We have to learn for ourselves. Your podcast is a great podcast to help with that. Again, that's what it's about, you know, being at a driver's seat of your career. That's what you talk about on your podcast. And I thank you for that. It's been extremely helpful. So as we start to wrap up, I want you just to drop just a few lines about 2020. Like when we first started talking, You said, look at 2020 and that's what I wrote down. And so look at it. Tell us more about what is 2020 for you.

Simone E. Morris: 18:58 21:41 2020 has been a very pivotal year for me. I would say that 2020 has helped me to use my voice even more because I had to use outrage in a productive way. And I was gutted by the killing of George Floyd. I was gutted. I had to decide how to use my feelings to move forward. And, you know, I started off 2020 thinking that I was going to be really focused on empowering women to be in the driver's seat for their careers. I did this. I was really focused on the workshops and and really uh molding or or doing work in that space and you know because the last thing that I did in March before everything hit the fan was I was at the Black Enterprise Women of Power um conference and what a wonderful conference oh my gosh ever get the opportunity to go, I said to myself while I was there, why didn't I go to this when I was in corporate? Because I had no idea about this conference that's been around for 15 years. And you know, I'm like, why was this not on my radar? So I went to this conference, and I came home and You know, that's when everything hit the fan. I came home amped up about my career, about changing careers for my clients and really going hard in that space for 2020. But I had to pivot with COVID because the world changed post-March, post-May. And so now I'm doing more of a dance with the inclusive leadership work. I still do career coaching, but I would say that primarily I'm getting a lot around the DEI strategy, listening sessions, et cetera, a lot around that work. So what 2020 has taught me. is the ability to give myself grace, give myself space to deal with what happens in life, and to rise up to handle what's next. So take the time to heal, Take the time to strategize and plan and be in the driver's seat for your career. And you define what makes you happy. So I've had to do a lot of that in 2020. And, you know, we don't know what is to come. We're about to, you know, go towards election and what that means. And there's always something coming. But you have to learn to dance with discomfort in 2020 and beyond.

Deneen L. Garrett: 21:43 21:57 Absolutely. Simone E. Morris, I thank you so much for your voice. I thank you so much for what you're doing in the DEI space. And thank you for coming on an intimate conversation with women of color.

Simone E. Morris: 21:57 22:07 Awesome. Thank you so much, Deneen, for what you're doing and for allowing me this opportunity to come and dance with your listeners. Thank you so much.

Deneen L. Garrett: 22:07 22:09 You are welcome. Enjoy the rest of your day.

Simone E. Morris: 22:09 22:11 You too. Take good care.

Deneen L. Garrett: 22:11 23:33 Thanks. Goodbye. So how was that? What another awesome intimate conversation. As I mentioned, today's guest is one of my three favorite podcasters, someone that I look to as I was thinking about starting a podcast. So I so appreciate Simone Morris. I appreciate her challenging us and preparing us, providing us tools with owning our career and getting in the driver's seats of our career, because it is up to us to manage that, to do the work that's needed to reach the goals that we're wanting to reach. So thank you all for being listeners. Thank you for coming back each week. I so appreciate you. Please continue to listen. Subscribe to the podcast if you have not already. And also important is to share the podcast. My goal is to reach millions of women. And in order to do that, I need your help in in getting in front of them. So thank you again for being a listener. I so appreciate you. I am your host Deneen L. Garrett.

Simone E. Morris

CEO & Founder

Simone Morris is CEO of Simone Morris Enterprises LLC, a certified minority and women-owned business enterprise providing leadership solutions. She is an award-winning diversity and inclusion leader recognized by Diversity Best Practices, Diversity MBA, Diversity MBE Magazine, and her former employer. The Stevie® Awards for Women in Business recently dubbed her the 2020 Bronze Winner for Female Solo Entrepreneur of the Year.

Ms. Morris spent twenty-three years in Corporate America with retail, consumer products, financial, pharmaceutical, and information technology industries. Her work in the Diversity and Inclusion field began through leadership, an employee resource group, followed up with a role in Human Resources, and then as the Director of Diversity for the Southern Connecticut Society for Human Resources. Today, Ms. Morris is a consultant, trainer, coach and speaker committed to developing more inclusive leaders and creating authentic, inclusive cultures in organizations.